Save The Girl Child

Accept your past without regrets,

Handle your present with confidence,

And face your future without fear…

Its normal to be in situations where you are being looked down by people, and this makes you look down on yourself.

Do not let other people sway of your confidence and self-esteem. Your looks, body is just fine the way it is, and the projection of perfection that friends might is very harmful – they’ll be like “why does your hair look like that?”, ” why are you wearing this?” and so many silly things to make you doubt yourself.

Don’t let yourself be affected, carry yourself high with your head up and no matter your shape, color, skin, gender, eyes, hair , only you own yourself.

Never let yourself feel bad about yourself…

Every woman has a past. Some were physically abused. Some had violent
parents. Some had pubertal issues. Some had sexual abuse as a child from their
own family members. Some had messed up love stories. Some had been forced
into sex in the name of love. Some had been drugged. Some were date raped.
Some had been viciously photographed on bed. Some had been blackmailed by
their ex-boyfriend. Some were in an abusive relationship. Some had menstrual
problems. Some had a broken family. Some had a divorce. Some had an obesity
issue. Some had financial droughts. Some had drug or alcohol addiction. Some
had a few unsuccessful suicide attempts.
If you see a woman, who went through any of these but had already wiped her
tears, tied her hair up, masked her sorrows with a divine smile, stood tall and
strong, started walking towards her future because she still has some hope left
inside her and has not given up on the concept of love that still exists in this
world, do not stab
her with her past. Do not confront her. Do not slap her with more abuse. Give
way for her and walk beside her. May be hold her hands and walk for a while.
You’ll know how sweet that soul is and how strong her hopes are!
You’ll be amazed at how she carries herself after all her energy has been sucked
out.
She need not always be only the woman next door or from a different home. She
could be your own friend, your own sister, your own girlfriend, your own wife, even
may be your own mother. Do not judge her by her past. Gift her the peaceful
future that she deserves. Hold her hands against the world, which knows only to
judge.
Give her the love that she always yearned for.

Teenage girls who in one way or the other got sexually and emotionally abused never wanted it.. Most were abused by their boyfriends and even mere guy friends. Women are created to be very naive and sometimes insensitive to certain things. I’ve been a situation where my boyfriend always pressurized me for sex, even when I’m not ready for it. He sometimes threatens me that he’ll break up with me cause I’ve not showed or prove to him rather that I really love him. And I have always known myself to be a strong and independent girl, so I told him, he can do anything he wish, that’s his problem and I broke up with him – cause I know that sex is not a way to prove love to any man. If he really loves you, he’ll wait till the right time. Then I told myself that this could be done to other girls, who aren’t strong enough to do what I did, they might just fall into his empty threats all for the sake of not loosing a so-called boyfriend who isn’t your husband yet.

As girls we should be strong enough to let go of guys who ain’t worth it. Guys who just want to have a taste of the cake and spit it out which means do shit with you and dumb you. He’ll show you all the love in the world, buy you things, pretends he loves you ,tell you sweet things, just to sleep with you…… Thou not all guys are like that but be watchful and wise..

A guy who fakes love to sleep with a woman is a rapist …he’s not only killing her emotionally but also sexually….

Together we can help women, ladies and girls out there who thought all hopes are lost, we can fight this battle of rapes and gender discrimination all over the world.