Women are not to be blamed for sexual abuses!!

Teenage girls who in one way or the other got sexually and emotionally abused never wanted it.. Most were abused by their boyfriends and even mere guy friends. Women are created to be very naive and sometimes insensitive to certain things. I’ve been a situation where my boyfriend always pressurized me for sex, even when I’m not ready for it. He sometimes threatens me that he’ll break up with me cause I’ve not showed or prove to him rather that I really love him. And I have always known myself to be a strong and independent girl, so I told him, he can do anything he wish, that’s his problem and I broke up with him – cause I know that sex is not a way to prove love to any man. If he really loves you, he’ll wait till the right time. Then I told myself that this could be done to other girls, who aren’t strong enough to do what I did, they might just fall into his empty threats all for the sake of not loosing a so-called boyfriend who isn’t your husband yet.

As girls we should be strong enough to let go of guys who ain’t worth it. Guys who just want to have a taste of the cake and spit it out which means do shit with you and dumb you. He’ll show you all the love in the world, buy you things, pretends he loves you ,tell you sweet things, just to sleep with you…… Thou not all guys are like that but be watchful and wise..

A guy who fakes love to sleep with a woman is a rapist …he’s not only killing her emotionally but also sexually….